Bitterness is YOUR Responsibility.
it's time Projectors woke the fuck up.
The most repelling frequency in the world is a bitter Projector.
I know because I was one, and I was surrounded by them too.
Bitter Projectors love to complain, bitch, and moan, and generally feel sorry for themselves. I used to get triggered by happy people, by people who proclaimed how much they ālove their lives.ā I used to judge other Projectors who were successful, thinking that anyone who made a lot of money from Human Design must be a charlatan. I would roll my eyes and think ātheyāre just not-self,ā instead of realizing it was something I deeply desired for myself.
The bitter Projector is identified with being a victim.
They donāt take responsibility for themselves or their lives ā they believe that life is happening to them, like a passive bystander. They reject any sense of personal agency. They blame the world, they blame other people, they blame their circumstances. They never for a second ask themselves whether the common denominator isā¦ them.
Reality is a mirror. When you are a bitter Projector, you continue to attract experiences and reasons to make you bitter. This becomes a vicious feedback loop, where the deeper you stare into the external reflection, the more it confirms your internal state.
It always starts with YOU.
You have to change your frequency first in order to shift your reality. Not the other way around. You canāt wait for reality to shift in order to find happiness. You could be waiting for a verrrryyyyyyyy long time (forever) if you expect this to happen.
āWaiting for the invitationā used to be my excuse for everything. I put off taking action on all my deepest desires thinking I had to wait for an invitation first. I convinced myself feeling depressed, anxious, bored, and lonely was just part of ādeconditioning.ā My life was put on hold; I thought on the other side of waiting there had to be some reward for my suffering (enlightenment and riches preferably).
It took me a long time to realize there was nothing coming.
I couldāve kept waiting forever for a day that would never arrive.
This honestly scared the shit out of me. And it should scare the shit out of you too.
You could literally die tomorrow. You could have spent years, even decades, of your life waiting for the elusive āinvitation,ā treating your life like a dress rehearsal instead of realizing this is it.
This is your actual life. Not a practice run.
You have to take it seriously. You canāt keep fucking around by waiting and telling yourself āone dayā¦ā
The thing you keep saying you want to do when you have the time, the energy, the space, the resources ā thatās the thing youāre meant to be doing now.
Personally, this sense of urgency empowered me. It felt like a bucket of cold water being dumped on my face. I woke up.
Now I am on somewhat of a mission to wake others up tooā¦
Projectors need to recognize their own power. They need to understand bitterness is their responsibility. Invitations donāt come to bitter Projectors. Iām sorry, thatās the cold harsh truth.
Invitations come naturally as a byproduct of your alignment. They come to Projectors who already feel successful.
Remember, reality is always a mirroršŖ
But hereās the key ā
Youāre not waiting for them to come. You are not putting your precious life on hold for the invitation.
You take action and they come. You show up in your life as an active participant ā following your obsessions, your curiosity, your gifts ā and they show up on their own accord.
If the most repelling frequency in the world is a bitter Projector, the most magnetic frequency is one who gives no fucks.
They are not needy and desperate for invitations.
Theyāre already vibrating with the energy of success.
Thus, life has no choice but to come and meet them there.
Projectors need to become their own authority. They need to realize they make up the ārulesā to their reality. They need to remember they have power and agency; they are not passive bystanders to their life. They are not victims. They are not waiting around for someone else to give them permission to do what makes them happy.
I share all this because this was my life. I was bitter and miserable for a stupid amount of time before I realized I needed to change. I feel like I pulled myself out of a dark hole and now have been reborn. I didnāt think it was possible to come out of that place. I have genuinely cried tears of happiness over the last few weeks over how much I love my life.
I havenāt felt this free in a long time.
Of course, I know life will continue to be life. I canāt be blissed out 24/7.
But I have created a new baseline for myself.
I have manifested a new reality.
And I want to share with you what I learnt along the way ā the tools, the mindset shifts, the actions I took to step out of being a victim and into the truest version of myself.
If you are a Projector who is feeling lost, confused, and disempowered by the invitation, waiting for someone else (or life) to give you permission to start livingā¦
Then you should really join my masterclass this Friday (10.10 @ 10am MDT on Zoom).
I am going to be going deep into all of the above and more. How to alchemize your bitterness for your benefit. What makes a Projector magnetic. The secret to attracting more invitations and the reasons you are repelling them.
We will go deep into the art of taking action as a Projector and how to wield your inner power to create your own reality.
I will be bridging energetics with the mechanics of Human Design.
The recording will be sent out and available to anyone who canāt make it live. You also have the opportunity to send in questions beforehand that I will answer during class.
This is a class focused on the Invitation specifically for Projectors. If you are not a Projector and want to empower your Projector clients or loved ones with this information ā you can absolutely join too.
See you in there ā”ļø
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